Saturday, January 29, 2011

40 years together and I'm still shocked at Jack's humor

I think if we were all honest with ourselves we would have to admit that we really DO NOT know anyone else truly, honestly, 100%.  Our thoughts are our own and through life we have a tendency to keep a lot of  those thoughts to ourselves.  Afraid of rejection, ridicule, exposure, whatever.  Every single person on earth most likely knows what I'm talking about here.  In March, Jack and I will have been married 40 years.  40 years!!!!  We were high school sweethearts and although our marriage has worked  for 40 years, with more ups and downs than a Cedar Point Roller Coaster,  I would never recommend any 17/18 year old getting married.   We had to be nuts.  I don't think at that age you really know what LOVE is.....you know what lust is but not true, ever lasting love.   So here we are two kids ourselves trying to figure out what the heck to do about this marriage thing.  Set up house, have children, etc., etc.  Children didn't come for us for a few years and looking back that was probably a good thing.  Working, college, finally two sons, career building takes the focus away from the marriage.  Other outside influences have the mental pull to take the pressure off of the original unit; it shouldn't be that way but it is.  So life comes full circle; the sons grow up to be men and we grow older and face the down side of where we started 40 years ago.  And Jack and I end up here; in an RV traveling in very close quarters and getting to know the real us.   And I'm here to tell you that I haven't laughed so much in a very long time.  Granted not every day is a bed of roses but most days Jack makes me laugh so hard I pee my pants.  And you older women know what I'm talking about.  Today was one of those days.  First he made me pee pants and then he had me spitting Diet Pepsi out of my nose.  I literally had to walk away from him so I couldn't  hear what he way saying. 


It was in the 70's here today so we were sitting outside in our shorts, lakeside just enjoying the sunshine and warmth.

The park was full of visitors and activities; people boating, riding bikes, picnicking.  All of the usual first real warm day of the season buzz.  Sitting there relaxing we both notice two tiny little boys across the lake.  From our view point they looked no older than 4 and 7; just a guess.  With them was a chocolate Lab and a mother who was laying down on the picnic table reading a book. Seemingly not really watching the boys.  The dog had more interest in their movements than mom seemed to have as the two little boys played with buckets and shovels in the water. 

Can't see mom but she's somewhere behind a tree on a picnic table reading a book.



"I cannot believe that the mom isn't watching those boys any closer than she is, " I commented to Jack.  "Yep," he replies back to me, " those boys are going to be two tough kids when they grow up.  The type to steal your lunch money and eat your peanut butter sandwiches in kindergarten." He goes on, " And then you just go back to your little nap mat and cry cause you know they are going to do it again tomorrow."   I was laughing so hard I couldn't stop long enough to ask him if perhaps he needed some therapy over something that happened in kindergarten.  He comes up with these things out of the blue and I am so totally shocked and always end up peeing my pants.  There have been days when we are out, most always at a Wal-Mart, and he sees one of those Wal-Mart people like on the web page peopleofwalmart.com, which by the way we may be on one day, and comes up with some comment that puts me in to a hysterical laugh.  I beg him not to make me laugh but he won't stop.  I guess he was always too busy to show that side of himself at home.  Or maybe I was too busy to notice. 

It was a beautiful day today.  Absolutely gorgeous.  We first went out for breakfast at the Huddle House.  We've eaten there twice; once for dinner and once for breakfast.  If you are ever in Alexander City, Alabama be sure to stop by the Huddle House for any meal.  Both meals we've eaten there have been well priced and delicious.  And the place is spotless and the help very nice.  But today when we walked in I really wanted to turn around and run.  I have never seen so much camo clothing in one place on real people in my whole 57 years of life.  I thought I had walked in to a National Guard advertisement.  At least I was praying that's what it was.  In my gut, though, I knew what was going on.  For the love of God we were in Alabama and the number one entertainment around here seems to be hunting or selling puppies and bunny rabbits in the Wal-Mart parking lot.  Jack sat against the wall at the only booth available.  My back was up against a booth of men talking about their deer conquest.  And for those of you who know me you know how I feel about hunting.  To each his own but I don't need or want to hear a play by play recap of your bloody conquest.  I knew if I insisted on moving or leaving Jack would be eating alone.  He had the whole restaurant of people to watch; I had three men who cussed like sailors and bragged about gutting their deer.  So, I did the only thing I knew to do; I stuck my fingers in my ears and hummed their conversations out of my head.   You can't imagine how hard it was for me not to turn around and pour the bottle of syrup over their heads, slap my sausage in their face and stick a fork in it. "And," I seethed silently to myself, "how does that feel?"  Reese Witherspoon in Sweet Home Alabama was correct.  In some parts of Alabama it does feel
as if you do need a passport to enter.
  
We rode bikes, hiked, walked the dogs for quite a distance and gathered wood.  I guess that's legal here in Alabama so we rode our bikes on to side roads gathering wood.  We looked like poor peasants going to market with our goods but since they don't sell wood and the weather was so nice we wanted a camp fire.  A neighbor though must have taken pity on us and came calling with an offer of their wood.  They were leaving tomorrow and did not want to haul the wood back home.  Busy day since the minute my feet hit the floor.  I should sleep well tonight. 



Taking a break during our hike.


We were hiking when we ran in to 6 deer.


Friday, Jan. 28, 2011--Cleaning Day

We decided today we would get the cleaning done so we could play all weekend since it's supposed to be in the 60's.  Jack washed the outside and I took care of the inside.  Cleaning a 5th. wheel is much different than cleaning our home.  To clean the house on a weekly basis it would take almost two days to clean everything e.g bathrooms, floors, dusting, and the little extra things that only needed done perhaps once a month.   To clean the RV takes all of an hour or so.  My biggest concern living in an RV was having the feeling of being cooped up in a small place and Jack and I getting on each others last nerve.  I'm happy to say so far so good.  Being able to get out and ride bikes or take long walks helps us both clear our minds of any stress.  We feel very blessed to have this opportunity to be out here on the road, exploring, learning and living our lives as best we can.   Really still not thrilled about sharing a bathroom  but then I remind myself  that I have only one bathroom to clean.  The sharing becomes a little easier every day.

I still miss my sons and family very much.  My sister and I have always spent tomorrow together since our mom passed away 7 years ago. This will be our first year apart on mom's date of death.  Things like that still hurt and make me tear up some days.  But then I get good news about Bear, my sister-in-law;  her hair is growing back and that makes her very happy, which makes me happy.  Or pictures from our niece who lives in Pennsylvania with lots of snow which made for a very beautiful snow gal pal, dress and all.  It was so cute to see Ellie and a snow gal pal as tall as she is.  We are not guaranteed a tomorrow so spending today with Jack makes me glad to be alive and where I am in life.

Some of you have asked about our RV and how we live in it.  Many people who have never "camped" picture us pitching a tent or popping up a camper.  While we have "been there, done that" through the years and wouldn't trade those times with our sons for anything in this world, I couldn't live permanently in that situation.  So we've taken some pictures to share with you.  The interior pictures were taken this past summer and Jack took the exterior pictures today.






Our bedroom

Kitchen



Bedroom dresser





Coat closet and water closet


 Oh.  And one more thing....Here's poor Sydney after her bath today before and after her top knot.


We enjoy all the comforts of home in our 5th wheel even in fairly remote locations.  We have satellite TV so we get about 130 channels that include all of the network channels for New York City and San Francisco.   All we need is a somewhat unobstructed view of the southwest sky at about a 45 degree angle to lock on to three satellites. When close to larger cities we would also pick up those local channels on a different antenna.  We watch these channels on one of three tv's.  We have a 46 inch tv in the living room, a 22 inch in the bedroom and a 20 inch in the basement ( 5th wheel lingo for the underneath storage area) for using outside.  We have a 5500 watt generator that can run all of the electric appliances, air conditioners etc. for short periods when we don't have electricity.  We generally only use this for lunch when we pull off the road or if power in the campground goes out.  We have a built in lp furnace and an electric rooftop ac and we carry smaller electric space heaters.We have a convection microwave and a regular oven plus a three burner stove.  We have a 100 gallon fresh water tank, 75 gallon grey, and 50 gallon black water tanks in the event we can't get water or sewer hook ups.  The 5th wheel has six hydraulic leveling jacks that eliminate the need for using wood blocks etc. to level the unit. We have a 12 gal water heater. A stainless steel refrigerator that had an ice maker until I removed it (we didn't like the ice using the campground water in some locations so we make ice cubes using bottled water).  The refrigerator automatically switches from electric to lp gas if we aren't hooked up to electricity.  If anyone wants to know anything else I forgot to mention send us an email and I will answer in a later post. Thanks Jack


Good night all.  Jack is working on our Montgomery trip blog.  I needed his help desperately.
PS.  It's been almost one month since Jack has really looked at the stock market but this week he said he has started to day trade (short term trade) closed end mutual funds.   He said this adds that little bit of "juice" that he likes.  Go figure.

Friday, January 28, 2011

Montgomery, Al. Wed. Jan. 26, 2011





The forecast for Wednesday, January 26th was rain so we decided to take a road trip to Montgomery Al. which is only about one hour away from Alexander City where we are currently staying.  Montgomery is known for being the center of the civil rights movement back in the 50's & 60's and being the home of Dr. Martin Luther King.  A couple of months ago we were in Memphis and saw the site where Martin Luther King was assassinated so it made it even more interesting to see where he lived and was a minister for many years. What a fantastic man.  We started at the Visitor Center where we met two very nice ladies who helped us plan our day's activities.  The Visitor Center is on the Alabama River in an old train station that had been beautifully restored. The wood work in the station was incredible.  We started our tour of the city by taking a trolley/ bus around which visited many of the famous government buildings, churches, and houses in Montgomery.  After the ride we started walking around the city on our own.  Below are some of the pictures we took of  our tour.




Inside the visitors center






  
The view behind the Visitor Center

This is the inside of the bus we were in that looked like an old trolley type bus.







State Capitol Building

This required laying on the floor to take this one


  


The stair case in the State Capital Building


The old Supreme Court Chamber from 1851 to 1940



Dr. Martin Luther King was the minister at Dexter Ave Church for 10 years.


Janet sitting on the steps of Dr. King's home






Rosa Park's Museum






Hank Williams also lived in Montgomery
 Misc.pictures





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